
Thanksgiving has always gotten a grade of “F” in my mind … “F” as in fantastic.
I mean, how could it get any better? Think about it, and what this Thanksgiving day brings to many of us — family, food, football, fun, feast, feathered foul often fried,and fireplaces — those are all fantastic “Fs” to celebrate this holiday.
It all starts with the focus on family so many of us are fortunate to enjoy on Thanksgiving day.
The Thanksgiving holiday always brings some of the most traveled days of the year in the U.S., with the Sunday after Thanksgiving being the most traveled day of all as people head home to return to their “real lives” for a short time as the Christmas season begins ramping up.
And that’s a big part of Thanksgiving to me — it’s the start of that “season of family” that continues until after New Year’s Day.
Thanksgiving provides an opportunity to strengthen the bonds of family. It’s a time of reflection and gratitude. In a world that at times seems to get crazier and crazier with each passing day, Thanksgiving provides an opportunity for face-to-face interaction and fun, something all too fleeting in this digital age.
And while Thanksgiving is centered around family, another “F” word is part of the celebration for many — the word friend.
Family is who you want it to be. Friendsgiving embraces the diversity of chosen families, where friends come together to share food, exchange stories, learn more about each other and strengthen their connections. Thanksgiving serves as a testament to the power of friendship and the sense of community that extends beyond blood relations.

And don’t forget the word that sounds like it begins with “F” but doesn’t — philanthropy. Thanksgiving can be a day of giving back to others. Don’t forget about those who might not have family or even many friends to be thankful for during the holidays.
If you know of such people, invite them to your friendsgiving celebration, or at least offer up some food to bring them the feeling of being thought of and cared about — every soul on Earth deserves a reason to be thankful on this day, no matter how big or small that reason may be.
Personally, football is a big part of my “F day” celebration on Thanksgiving. Growing up, Thanksgiving morning often started with some backyard touch football with family and friends while the holiday meal was being prepared inside.
Football on Thanksgiving day is a tradition that goes back longer than most people realize — to 1876 when Princeton and Yale, playing a modified game of rugby, faced off in Hoboken, New Jersey, launching an American holiday tradition that is stronger than ever 148 years later.
And especially with today’s Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade not being televised for the first time in decades, I’m sure millions of televisions across the U.S. have started the morning with EA Sports College Football or Madden NFL football video games being played.
But I’m a traditionalist, and much more enjoy a backyard football game, even if my aging body doesn’t move as well as it used to. It’s the human touch, as in touch football — see what I did there? — that makes it a more important part of Thanksgiving day than a video game ever could.
And then there’s the Thanksgiving feast featuring a flavorful, finger-licking good feathered fowl (try saying that three times fast).
Growing up it was the traditional oven-baked turkey that our Thanksgiving meals were based around. Later came the much better, in my humble opinion, fried turkey, which I still love to this day.
But today I’ll be outside not only playing a little touch football, but also firing up the grill to smoke a turkey, which has become our tradition in recent years after decades of eating the fried version on Thanksgiving. I still inject the big bird with flavorings as I did when they were being fried, but we’ve found that smoking them with pecan wood helps create the juiciest, most-delectable turkeys for us.
And when I come inside to sit down and watch some football, today might be the perfect time to light up our fireplace for the first time this fall as temperatures drop at the perfect time to begin the holiday season here in the piney hills of Lincoln Parish.
There’s something about the sound of cracking wood and the feel of the warmth radiating from flicking flames that fires up and strengthens the feeling of family bonding on Thanksgiving day.

























